Like old, worn baggage, we carry stress, fear, and
worry from yesterday with us into today.
When presented
with opportunities, we quickly check our rearview mirror to
assess our past capabilities. “No, I’ve never done anything
like that before. I’ve never achieved at that level. In fact,
I’ve failed, time and time again.”
When presented with adversity,
we go back to our
trusty rearview mirror for guidance on how to respond.
“Yep, just my luck. This crap always happens to me. I’m
just going to give up; that’s what I’ve always done when
things get too difficult.”
If you are to move beyond your past and transcend
your limitations, you must stop living out of your rearview
mirror and start imagining a life of limitless possibilities.
Accept the paradigm:
my past does not equal my future.
Talk to yourself in a way that inspires confidence that not
only is anything possible, but that
you are capable and
committed to making it so. It’s not even necessary to
believe it at first. In fact, you probably won’t believe it. You
might find it uncomfortable and that you resist doing it.
That’s okay. Repeat it to yourself anyway, and your
subconscious mind will begin to absorb
the positive self-
affirmations. (More on how to do this in
Chapter 6: The
Life S.A.V.E.R.S.)
Don’t place unnecessary limitations on what you want
for your life. Think bigger than you’ve allowed yourself to
think up until this point. Get clear on what you truly want,
condition yourself to the belief that it’s possible by focusing
on
and affirming it every day, and then consistently move in
the direction of your vision until it becomes your reality.
There is nothing to fear, because you cannot fail—only
learn, grow, and become better than you’ve ever been
before.
Always remember that where you are is a result of who
you
were, but where you go depends entirely on who you
choose to be, from this moment on.
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